In an experiment by the psychologist Paul Rozin, he asked educated adults to eat chocolate fudge that was shaped like dog faeces. The other option was to eat soup from a pristine, brand new bedpan. People knew the fudge was real fudge and the bedpan was clean (it would be deeply unethical if wasn’t!) But many people refused. They believed the food was clean but they ‘alieved’ it wasn’t. This could be what happens when you watch a horror movie. You know you’re safe, you don’t really believe the monster will come out of the screen and harm you. But it still seems like it could. You just ‘alieve’ it will. The feeling experienced is still very real.
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Ambivalent Men and the Women Who Love Them
Posted: July 18, 2014 in Scoop.itTags: character, character development, fiction, insights, writing
The non-committal, emotionally unavailable man pairing with an overly attentive female who is willing to hang in there–no matter what–is a surprisingly common relationship. Always eager to sew wild oats, the male in this dynamic is frequently described as a “player.”
Why in this scenario does the female stay true to such a man? It may be because she believes his very aloofness makes him a more desirable catch. If she hangs in there long enough, he will eventually commit, and it will mean so much more because he was so ambivalent about her in the beginning. She sees a chance for self-validation in earning his attention when others couldn’t.
Women caught in this circular thinking rarely experience a happy romantic ending.
Source: www.psychologytoday.com
How to Improve Intelligence Communication
Posted: April 30, 2014 in Thinking, WritingTags: approach, fiction, perspective, situations, writing, writing fiction
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what is at the root of bad Intelligence Communication?
Bad written and oral communication training in college (like everyone else!). The need to show off how smart we are … which may be particularly prevalent among intelligence and analytical functions, owing to the often difficult position of trying to influence direction from an external perspective. The need to prove we know what we’re talking about … which, again, is likely common to our positions since we are so often combating wisdom.
for writing about internationally tense situations, a perspective that can be explored in fiction
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